Your thread is locked, but I read through some of it. I read your W's first post.
Sounds to me like YOU need to change, your W is OK. Hopefully you'll know why she lost feelings for you. If not then read her first post again. That's enough to make any woman fall out of love.
See, you can't hit a person in the face with a baseball bat, then come back the next day, say your sorry and expect everything will be OK. It's going to take that person a VERY LONG time to trust you again, let alone have intimate feelings for you again. Better plan on YEARS to pass before she'll have real feelings for you. The sooner you make the changes the better, and they have to be real changes, not just temporary. Every time you fall back into old behaiviors you're falling back to that start line again. It's a long road, hang in there.
God Bless,
COG
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