Cog, Not sure I am quite ready for Piecing (still in newcomers) but on the verge (I think the glaciers are retreating faster). Many similarities between us.
Have you found any reading material? Been through the usual books over the past 18 months but haven't found anything like -once the D is busted now what? I can see this is not going to be the same as courting her 20 years ago. I would hate to screw this up in all my mighty ignorance like I did preDB.
