So sorry to bust in on your thread but I really could use your input. My latest thread can be found at my sitch
W and I have been separated for four months. The usual begining...pursuit, etc. We then moved onto being great friends and I could have sworn that things were more intimate than "platonic friends" but it has come out that my W is done, wants someone different, never should have married me, she's let go, wants to move on, doesn't want there to be a chance for us, etc.
She says the "intimacy" I was feeling was just us being good friends. She now seems so done....before, she didn't know, now she says she feels there's no chance and doesn't want there to be a chance. She says she wants to date and find someone else.
You have suffered the long road....can you offer any advice or perspective. I have asked God for strength and patience but I am currently feeling like there's no hope. It seems that in your case, your W "wanted" things to work but was just waiting for the changes. My W doesn't want it to work out, she says she sees my changes but they're too little, too late.
