Update: Well our "fun nights" have been going pretty well. She's agreed to one night a week for some romping in the hay. While we have'nt made it to home plate, we keep getting closer. The nice thing about it, for her, is that she has six free nights to do what she wants and not have to worry about me wanting some. It's definately taken some pressure off. She happily cooperates come "fun night".

Last night as we lay in bed I just popped off and said, "someday I would like to ML to you", and she said, "OK". She would'nt respond like that, unless she was serious. So, I'm looking forward to ML to her someday and I think it will be sooner than later. She keeps warming up, and I keep playing it cool. We're getting there, that place in the middle where we both feel comfortable. Praise God!

Love,

COG


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