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Could ya be a little more specific about that?



Hard to be specific without knowing what you've tried, been pushed away on, have not had success with, or are opposed to on moral grounds.

I guess I was thinking of perhaps looking through a kama sutra or other similar book. Perhaps start with a massage and let it get more sensual. That was often an in for me...start with a massage to relax her, then make it more about kissing her randomly, but slowly working towards more errogenous regions. Be unpredictable where you kiss or lick, but eventually zero in. I don't know your or your wife's feelings on oral sex (for her), but mine generally can't resist, even when she's initially not in the mood. All this of course embarrassed me.

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Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
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