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Me,

Thanks for the response.

I've always felt that the physical intimacy went hand in hand with emotional intimacy. When my wife was not feeling the emotional side of it, the physical side waned.

So true. I believe that's the case in my sitch. She's changing gradually instead of in lightning bolt fashion though. The feelings are coming, just seeping in slowly.

So I would never have felt like we were truly connected unless we had the physical as well.

True again, and while W and I are together, loving each other, and making things work, I truly don't feel connected yet.

When her heart is completely in it, her body I would think would naturally follow.

That's what I'm looking forward to. She's heading in that direction, making prgress, it's baby steps.

My only suggestion is to perhaps post in the sexual difficulties area and see if you can get some useful feedback.

I've lurked there but have'nt seen much that looks very helpful.

I guess I would also suggest engaging in foreplay that she can't resist.

Could ya be a little more specific about that?