New to Piecing

[COG]

Well I decided to accept the invite to Piecing. W and I reconciled about two months ago. We still are'nt living together, but we're easing into things. We spend about five nights a week together. Neither of our two houses are big enough so we have'nt moved in on top of each other. I think that's very wise. Give's us each a little space to escape to when we need it. It's kind of fun, like being engaged.

I don't have any concerns about our future. I choose not to worry about it. I try to just enjoy what we have right now which is very beautiful and fulfilling. W is still working on HER. She's not completely comfortable with sex, but she's slowly softening, allowing more and more. It's baby steps forever.

We do share some wonderfully warm and intimate times together though. Lots of cuddling, holding, smooching, and fondling. She's beautiful inside and out, and I remind of of it regularly.

I initiate the moves for more physical intimacy, attempting to move from cuddling in bed, to something involving more skin. She says she does'nt mind as long as it's OK when she says she's had enough, or becomes uncomfortable. I have been completely supportive, gentle, and understanding. She says she know's she'll get there soon, and thanks me for being so patient with her.

Any input, pointers, ideas welcome. Basically it would be nice to have the deep and beautiful sexual R to go with everything else that we have going so well.

Thanks,

COG