GH, This is how I have been feeling myself lately:
Quote: So, here we are, an ILYBINILWY speech/affair under our belts, communicating better than ever and yet there is NO spark. There is great friendship but no passion.
My H and I never really had much passion either (except in the beginning b4 the kids). I don't want our OLD sex life back either but I do want A sex life. I want spontonaity, passion, fire; I want to feel wanted. I feel like we may be working back towards that but I'm afraid. I was never the one to initiate, this led to my H feeling unappreciated and unloved. If I initiate now, will he feel like it is too little too late? Will he reject me and tell me he just wants to be friends for the kids sake? So here I (and you) sit. What to do? Should we just go for it? I need to guard my heart, I don't think I could go through this hurt all over again.
