Quote: I suppose I am looking for my W to have that "in love" reaction to me so that I know she's really back. I guess since that's why she claims to have left in the first place, that lack of "in love" feelings for me, then her NOT having those now signifies to me that something is still amiss.
Geez GH, you need to get out of my brain! This is precisely where I am right now in regard to my sitch. Thankfully, reading your posts helps bring some clarity, because I hadn't thought about it the way you are right now. I guess you're right.....hopefully they are realizing that the "in love" feeling is only temporary and love takes on many forms.
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