I suppose I am looking for my W to have that "in love" reaction to me so that I know she's really back. I guess since that's why she claims to have left in the first place, that lack of "in love" feelings for me, then her NOT having those now signifies to me that something is still amiss. When I think about it more though, I suppose it's possible that she now realizes, as we all do, that the "in love" feeling she describes is temporary even in the BEST of R's and in a marriage, love takes different forms. I HOPE she realizes that even though love in marriage is different, is does not need to be passionless or devoid of intimacy like ours was.
