That's the best post I have read in awhile, or at least one directed at me. I am printing that one out and carrying it with me for awhile. Thank you for that so much.
I know I need to do the "where I was 2 months ago" thing and I guess NOT doing that is another symptom of complacency in my sitch. Also, the GAL thing is a little tough right now for 2 reasons. First, I am SLAMMED busy with extra work right now so I am away a lot as it is. My "free" time away from work is almost totally consumed with family obligations, spending time with the kids, cleaning, etc. There really isn't much "me" time OR "us" time for that matter to be had for a couple more weeks. When that is over, and things settle down, I can refocus on the task at hand. In the meantime, I WILL finish DR, I will keep doing the little things, and I will back off because now is a dangerous time when we are all tired and weary from my work schedule and it's easy to be something other than loving towards one another.
I am going forward with realization that I am in a new place with my R and that time IS doing it's thing. I just wish it would do it faster, that's all.
