It is really great that you completely get that the absence of OM is not the solution to your problems :-) Of course, how could it be, as it wasn't the source??? The reason you have such a good chance here is because you aren't simply waiting for W to "come to her senses," "quit acting crazy," and "dump OM." Rather, you are really treating your W's actions with compassion and empathy, and looking for the best in her to explain her painful actions rather than dismissing them as crazy. This is the secret to success in any R -- generosity in how you interpret the actions of others and respect for their deepest motives if not their actions.
