I would disagree with the literal statement that I am "on the other side". I am in spirit but in reality, I am still mired deeply in it as far as I am concerned.
I do feel like I see things a bit clearer now by virtue of going through it, seeing so many others go through it and reading a TON of material on the subject. I am NO expert, but I hope I can help somebody the way you and others have helped me. I think I owe it to the people here.
