I am happy for you. Things look like they are going in the right direction for you. I wish had some profound advice for you but as you know I do not excel in the area of db'ing. Maybe I should write a book on how not to DB. Anyways this is about you not me. I wish you continued success and do whatever you feel is right in your heart. Although I don't know you personally from what I have read of your story and what advice and support you have given me, you obviously are a loving, caring and intelligent human being. Trust yourself and the decisions that you make as I am sure they are the right ones.