Quote: Rob's latest post about the bath, backrub, and no sexual overtures made me wonder *who in the world thinks this is a good scenario???*
Hold on there OT, I don't want to hijack, but let me go into a bit more detail here. See, in the past, I would use such moments purely for sexual overtures. Sure, a soak in the hot tub sounds grand if only because I knew I was going to likely get some. The difference here was more in attitude than anyting else....there was a chance for some real intimacy, closeness. Unfortunately, whether right or wrong, I always assumed that my W didn't respond well to intimacy (this can be a whole other discussion). This is a major improvement for me because I feel that in the past I was way to eager (based upon my mistaken assumptions and, well, just desire) to just jump into doing the do.
And for the record, the details that followed afterward were edited for the sake of preserving the board from TMI
Now back to our regularly scheduled post!
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