Are you familiar with Shark over in the "I Need Support..." forum? He just started a new thread but he shared his previous one with a poster that goes by "JSD". The previous thread still shows up under Sharks name and you can read through it for an idea of both their sitches. I particularly think JSD could benefit from your advice and that of the folks who regularly post to you. Would you mind taking a look? I'm limited to only being able to help them see where their wives may be mentally. I don't know how to tell them to DB....HELP!