I think you are right on. I was just thinking about that on my way home. It really has only been 4 days since she opened up and I don't know if it's too soon for me to approach her with all this. She may feel like she just got finished with one hurdle and I am throwing a mountain at her. On the other hand, as OT keeps alluding to, IF she is waiting for me to make a move, then my hesitation could prove costly to our relationship. It's SO hard to know what to do, especially with a track record of NOT doing the right thing.
It's so hard too to shake this idea that my W just doesn't see me. If you have been where I am, you understand the feeling.
Like I said, I think this may be too much too soon. This weekend should be interesting.