Are you being serious or direct? I only question that because I don't know which ring purchase you are referring to, the more recent wedding band or the one in Ireland.
If you are serious, as I suspect you are, then...
Quote: Maybe --about the PA --about being ready for sex --about having gotten ready for sex with you and being disappointed you didn't pursue and find her in that g-string
---Ok, I guess, but the place I saw it was really out of the way. It was only because I dropped something and was bending down to get it that I even saw her undies. ---IF they are about her being ready for sex, then why not put them on... ---No, in some way or another, I know what undies she wears every day, and especially to bed. She has never worn these to bed.
I am really curious about something and this is more of the same questioning as last time. Am I to just accept that my W is never going to give me ANY clue or let me know in ANY way, via direct communication or indirect signal, that she is "ready"? You seem to be saying that my W could be this hot-bed of passion just waiting for the magic word/thing to release it in her. Maybe the OM WAS that magic thing. Maybe she is looking for whatever they had in us. I don't know.
Here's a little more to ponder. This guy that my W was "with", well, as I have said, he's basically a supermodel and suffice to say I am not. It's almost like finding out your W is seeing Brad Pitt or someone. I know it's not all about looks and body, but when it comes to passion and physical attraction, it does play a part. So here I am, the same ole me, and there he is, Adonis in the flesh. Sure, he turned out to be an a-hole but before that, who knows what they did or how it affected her outlook on intimacy, etc. I don't spend much time fretting over this but it does come into play as I try to understand what may be preventing her from being with me.
