Quote: SS, I think that it was actually GH's W who brought the subject up. I think that sometimes the WAS "needs" to confess to the A to move past it. The fact that GH and his W have sexual issues (i.e. they aren't doing it) means that the fact that there almost certainly was a PA is going to be an issue that they probably are going to have to discuss before their marriage has the intimacy that GH so badly wants.
RB is right about the initial conversation but I think SS was talking about me talking about it with her in the future. I think that is sound advice SS. It would also be in keeping with my approach thus far. I will try to once again put it out of my mind. I suppose it's hard now for different reasons, namely that my W is open to talking about it. So, as RB suggested, if my W brings it up for whatever reason, I will listen and then try to move on.
Also, I think RB is right on about the intimacy being a problem for my W and I think it's because of the unspoken PA. You know I do have to say, for the record, that I have NO evidence of a PA. I just strongly suspect it because of the almost immediate stoppage of ML by my W with me that seems to have coincided with when she says they "started seeing each other".
