D court Thursday 4/13 help!!

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I can't seem to find the thread where Jamesjohn discusses it, but the author of [censored] is apparently an "expert" primarily because he has declared himself to be and has successfully marketed his e-book. I don't remember exactly, but I don't believe he has the training or experience that he suggests.

JL, you are posting on a "divorcebusters" website. Our goal here is to stop divorces from occurring. Though it is possible to reconnect with an ex after a divorce, there is a much bigger hurdle there than keeping a spouse you've already got.

I will tell you that your wife's affair has a good shot at ending in the upcoming six months if you give it that. If you have made the dramatic changes in your life that you suggest, it will give your wife time to see that those changes are real, and the counseling sessions can help with that.

My very strong opinion is you should ask for the delay.