FWIW Just adding a little more info on my W's Withdrawal. My W has disappeared for the Easter weekend. I've talked with both of my S's in the last few days and neither knows for sure where she is. This is the first time ever, that I know of, that my W has not spent Easter with her family. Holiday family get-togethers have always been very special to her. A year ago she had my S's, their SO's and me over to her apartment for Easter dinner. Late last year she had some very choice comments about our family potentially not spending Christmas together. I guess her views have changed since then.
Talking with my S's this week, I get the impression that they have pretty much thrown their hands up at this point and have given up on my W and I every being together again. They are both frustrated and as bewildered as I am. The longer this goes on, the more lost and confused my W seems and the more tragic this all seems. My S's did both take her out for dinner to celebrate her birthday recently. I sent her a birthday card but this was the first one that I did not make. It's hard to find nice generic cards that say something and say nothing at the same time.
