How much harm is done if a MLCer is in total withdrawal (and probably depression) it my in-laws keep emailing him? It's been two weeks since I've had any contact with him. I spoke with my in-laws, who are totally on my side (except for one snide remark - M is a two way street, what did you do? - Boy, did I come apart at MIL on that ). FIL emails H. I told my FIL that if he did to tell H that I wished him well and am concerned. Was that wrong or should I suggest they don't email him either? I think H is going to be in this awhile since my D is graduating and he knows she will not want him near the graduation.


Sitting quietly doing nothing, the flowers bloom effortlessly.

bomb: Jan 25, 2006
not seen since
DD moved in with H - 9/1/08
H filed for divorce - 11/2008
Divorce dismissed by courts - 4/2010
still nothing