I'm sorry newlyhopeful. My H hasn't been in this R with OW for too long. Five months off and on? I have read that most A don't last more than 6 months, hopefully the nail in the coffin will be the fact H doesn't intend to file for D until at least July. I think H is just basically waiting for OW to break things off with him.
I don't understand H, but I understand OW even less.
