Quote: My H's OW is not in it for the money with H either. H is broke, and even if he had it, I don't think he would spend it on her. Their R isn't in the real world yet. As far as I know they don't go out at all, and that will get old with her. What's the fun of a new boyfriend when he is fifteen years older, has no money, and won't be seen in public with you?
You have discribed my situation exactly except he is 20 yrs older. I don't get it either.