My H's OW is not in it for the money with H either. H is broke, and even if he had it, I don't think he would spend it on her. Their R isn't in the real world yet. As far as I know they don't go out at all, and that will get old with her. What's the fun of a new boyfriend when he is fifteen years older, has no money, and won't be seen in public with you?

Lael