What's funny is that he seems more depressed when he's my husband, and not his evil twin PeaBrain. I would think he should sound less depressed, as Snodderly says. Or maybe he's just faking it.
Friendly, I see this exact same pattern. But I don't think H is faking it. I think he has actually been somewhat depressed for years and years, maybe much of his adult life. So as not to hijack, I'm going ruminate on this some more on my own thread.
MissingMyH, Thanks for your crib notes. I liked the ones on withdrawal especially, they clarified a few things for me.Also thanks for the reminder not to obsess on his stage too much and instead keep the focus on me. If I had to guess, my H is in replay/depression but I really don't spend much time thinking about that.
