This is the greatest thread, even though I am nowhere near to this stage. It is so insightful to get posters to give the real true life experiences that they have had and are having yet as examples for us to learn from. If I hadn't found the forums on MLC and seen the exact piture of my life, I might have gone on believing that I did something so wrong for H to go from a kind, loving, caring person to a person I hardly know in the matter of a 2-3 months. To be here and talk about withdrawl is encouraging. It is hard for me to believe in my heart that he will ever get to that point. I always think about him being out there in the world and so darn happy until he came over yesterday and really talked to me about things. He truly is not at all as happy as you might think. I can tell it from his eyes (and yes he did look at me at least a couple of times). Everyone keep posting here with questions, answers, and experiences. It is one of the 1st threads that I check each day to see what new info I might gain to help me in my still long journey.
