Hope That's my feelings too. I haven't and won't contact him. It's on him now. I figured he has scrambled back into the darkness of the tunnel and hopefully will peek out soon.
I'm glad you are working on detaching. I read your other thread. Keep it up. It's really hard at the beginning but as each day goes by it gets easier and easier. I have been detaching for several months now and really feel so much better. Take care of yourself K