kialeah, this is all very good. He's feeling depressed and the euphoria from replay is wearing off. He's coming off that "high". He sees o.w. has issues and is no longer impressed. Good! I'd say it sounds like he's still thinking long and hard about his life and what to do. He's got to find the answers on his own so let him do that. (I need to take my own advice here).
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
