I just started to try and figure out where my H was in all of this today. I had been going with the assumption that this started in September, but once Was2sad suggested blocking it all out on a timeline, I think H has been in MLC for about 2 1/2 years. If you get a chance check out my post, I went into detail. I really do think H may be in depression/slash withdrawal, but he may have a little replay in him too. I always assumed he could still be with OW through all of the stages right up until the end. I didn't think she would disappear after replay.
H has been really into apologizing lately, and hasn't really had much anger. He hasn't really sent me too much e-mail the last couple of days after sending a ton of it last week. He is either going into withdrawal, or OW has told him to stop talking to me. It will be interesting to see how he handles our little trip tomorrow.