Thanks Snodderly for clearing that up some for me. I figured that my h was in the depression/withdrawl stage right now. No contact at all except around the 7 week of no contact and then a little visit. Last time he really opened up to me and cried alot. He looked so terrible and has said the has been doing alot of thinking. Is it normal for him to go into hiding again for a while? I didn't know if he was in replay also since he is still with the ow? Any replies will be appreciated.
Thanks Hope for starting this thread maybe it will clear up some questions for all of us.