mermaid, Glad this is helpful to you. Thanks for sharing that. I have the same issues with my H. When he used to come by he would stay for several hours; now his visits are a lot shorter. However, he still goes to work and associates with co-workers and has o.w. so I know he's not out of replay yet. I hope others will post.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.