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thought about that a lot, I'm not a 'success story' because it's still a work in progress.




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my work here isn't done yet




and therein lies the true reality
a marriage is a living breathing entity and will continue to be a work and in progress - as it should be

it is only when we become complacent that we find it crumbling around us

you have done brilliantly to come this far
but as you say you are at the beginning still
just a new level

bj


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