I for one find your words inspirational and I read your posts often. I'm on the same journey you are and it isn't easy. Some days it would be so easy to give up but you inspire me to keep on going. I learned, just as you did, I will be okay with my H or without my H. I choose to be with him and to work through his A. I'm pretty sure that he's still lying to me and it causes me to step back a bit, but I'm in for the long haul, so I have to be patient for him to learn that we are partners and that when we married, we became one, my pain is his and visa versa. I'm convinced that we'll make it because we are both committed to making it work.

Yes, please keep posting. I want to share this journey with you.


Gwyn