Quote: I am so glad you are continuing to post and keep it real here. It would be so easy to take what you learned in this time, and go away, only returning to "guest" post every once in awhile.
Please, get your work done, put a LOT more energy into your "real" life and take time out ever now and again to keep us posted. You ARE one of the "super helpers" here. Thank you.
I thought about that a lot, I'm not a 'success story' because it's still a work in progress. Sure, to all intents and purposes I can claim that title but something is telling me that my work here isn't done yet.
I have no doubt my marriage will succeed now. Counselor said that there are only like one in a hundred that survive this kind of event, but those who do live richer lives because they are so much more aware of their lives, of their partners life.
I mentioned to Counselor today that I wasn't posting to the board much lately. She said she could tell because of my demeanor, as in "You have something more to give to others and you aren't doing it, you aren't sharing your journey. Finish what you started, inspire others with your words".
I don't feel like a "super helper", just a man who is very good with words and not afraid to say what he feels.
Since there isn't a 'reclaming and healing' area I'll stay in 'Piecing' and continue my journey with you. It's the least I can do, you all gave so much to me when I needed it.
