Sorry to hijack your thread, I did that to Sven's too. But I could really need some advice about my sitch. I'm in Newcomers, W told me she wants to work it out, but I'm not so convinced anymore. Is her behaviour 'normal'? (as far as it gets anyway). You wrote you have to do 95% of the work. Is your W doing anything to help you to heal? In Michele's book she writes what the unfaithful person has to do to help the LBS to heal, but if nothing of this is happening. Do I just have to be more patient and trustful? And what if I can't trust her yet and she is not helping about it?
