I think I might be of more use today than I have ever been.
My wife changed over night. I cant say I deserve my wife becasue GOd knows I did huge damage to my marriage but you juct cant believe how strange these women are. Sorry AmyC
Crazy. Not in a bad way but just how they feel and think.
My wife is on board 120%. Read these emails.
Wife,
Maybe we could just plan an overnight something somewhere with the kids like saturday afternoon till sunday.
Do it on the cheap but just so we can get away.
Just something to look forward to and get out of the grind. I am not sure what the best would be but just maybe we could start with something. Let me know what you think.
I am at barnes waiting for Steve and then we will be driving all over CA.
Don't wotk too hard. I don't mind taking the kids at all. The only times I can't is when I have 9AM appointments.
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ok - I'll think about a 1 nighter somewhere for us.
Be careful driving around today - it's wet.
Love, me
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Will do. Also, I thought with kids but if you want just us that's great too.
Love, Me
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I did mean all of us (boys too). Maybe for our "biggie" in June just you and I can go somewhere.
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Your choice. We need alone time too, so ill leave that up to you.
A family that plays together stays together and smiles together.
I just want us all to smile and walk together as a family.
Me
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me too
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I'm back.
Working from home
Have fun with boys and practice, call me later.
Me
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ok - thanks
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Amazing isnt it. Like nothing ever happened. Changed on a dime. You know my entire story and I do think you can make heads or tales of this.
You know the stories on these threads. Dont they all have the same feeling. I know I can read the ones now where I dont think there is much hope or there is a lot of game playing and where there is hope and there is WAY TOO much game playing and not know what you have until its gone theme (Like Yours).
In closing I think if you left it would SHAKE your wife up, BIG TIME! But at the same time the #1 fact that brought my wife back and this is huge:
I never gave up, never dated and stayed the course. (From my wife's mouth. Infact her friend also said these same words and told her how valuable that was)
In addition if I had of left she told me she might of come back but it would have taken much much longer if ever. Because she is a runner she would have ran and not had the guts to step on her pride and come back.
And here is the clincher for you. When I found out what friend it was that helped her find her way home, I was shocked. I hated this girl! I mean hated her, I threw her out of my house one time. She is now welcome any and all the time.
