What's the saying? One cannot be all things to all people. I like to add, "you can only be that to yourself". Being true to yourself doesn't mean being selfish, but it does mean being aware when you are not being your authentic self and showing your honest (or, as close as possible) persona to the world.
But, sometimes we fail ourselves, and that means reassessing, taking stock, questioning your inner self, etc. We are all a masterpiece in progress.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim