I fully intend to stay away from them in the future they give you their heart and soul and all the trust in the world until they feel you let them down and then they back off big time
maybe that is the key Frank
I am reading your thread and get this feeling your are perhaps trying too hard you really need to look at what you are doing
you and w seem to do lots together (kinda joined at the hip stuff) maybe now is the time to 180 you cannot give her what she wants when she doesn't know what she wants how about giving you what you want GAL big time - go running, walking without her start gardening alone get a new hobby, join a class etc be busy doing things and not so worried about what she is doing or what message you may be sending her don't check on her to see if she is ok
and then communicate big time all the stuff YOU are doing leave her a space for her to slip into along side you if she wishes but don't worry if she slips in and out
I think you are trying too hard - and that is why it is not working - I get the impression you are constantly thinking and watching and waiting (like walking on eggshells scared to make the wrong move) you need to just be YOU
Scorpios ARE the sexiest signs in the zodiac - but they are confident people, and just do things you need to work on YOU more I think about 70% on you and what you want and 30% on w and what she wants
the worse feelings I get are when H makes it all about me, and tries to second guess what I want, need, will like when the focus is not on me I feel much better - not under the microscope
you need to do more things outside the r and say hey I am doing xx wanna come - wait one minute - and then say ok cya and go - you will come back with lots of stuff to talk about and maybe things you picked up - like hey look what I got
you need to create something so she wants to follow for fear of missing out on something new you can't do that the way you are doing it - focussing on her
stop trying to kiss, cuddle etc let her initiate it for you if she doesn't don't worry - I am not sure what I am saying here I just get the overall feeling the focus is so much on her that she may feel like she is under a microscope and her reactions are very guarded due to this
hope you understand what I am trying to say here and that it makes some sense
