Quote: I would say do exactly what you were doing before her big dramatic talk with you that Thursday night.
You were getting used to her not being there and making her get used to you not being her "best friend" (read: doormat).
That seems extreme but probably realistic. I thought that just expressing myself, when I want to kiss or hug her. might be a way to get some change.
I think it's more of a balance. Don't show affection, but don't be totally available either, like I was before except not be SO detached I don't even talk to her.