Quote: Maybe she does not want to show you those feelings because of the guilt of the OM. Even though you might have forgiven her and she has heard you. She needsa to forgive herself for the OM.
Just a thought.
Shark
That may very well be part of it. I know when we had a talk about 'relationships and trust' she said she knew it was hard for me to drop my defenses towards her "after what I did".
Of course, she also says that since I am a Scorpio, trust doesn't come easily to me.
I think also she wants her life "back" but also wants all the things she knows she was missing from the relationship - and doesn't seem to see the damage she's done to me that makes it difficult for me to respond. SHe also doesn't seem to really know how she 'feels' other than 'not in love'.
Maybe I just need to accept that she just isn't feeling love for me any more. It's just gone. I mean, it's not like I haven't done enough to show my love for her. She just doesn't have it. I really think letting her go is the best thing.
