Something to consider about the feelings coming back.
I know I am not ready for this part of the challenge. Maybe it's too soon. I'm barely out of depression and post-affair blues.
Maybe since you are not they dont feel real to her. Women can sense this. And also:
Maybe she does not want to show you those feelings because of the guilt of the OM. Even though you might have forgiven her and she has heard you. She needsa to forgive herself for the OM.
