Frank I hear your delima. In many ways I think I am sort of in the same place myself with my WAW. She is waiting for this feeling to just sweep over her. I have a different take on it though. Is this not the type of fairytale that our books tell us does not last? Is this not the first 6 month feeling that she is chasing? My fear for me - and for you - is that it just can never last at that level and unless our W's realize that they will chase this forever and never maintain it. We all need to have passion in our lives. We need many of the same type of things. It's just that I'm not sure they come in the packages that our W's want. I think that might be why you and I don't have much of a clue how to give them what they are looking for. I really do think it's because we cannot - not for longer than 6 to 12 months anyhow if we are to believe people like MWD and the others that caution against the very thing that your W is looking for.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
