ok, I left it with her needing space tonite. It's dinnertime and I offer to go for take out. WHen I come back W is watching some movie with Richard Gere and Susan Sarandon - I think it's called 'Dance with me'. She tells me I have to watch it with her sometime because there is a scene that I have to see - so I will 'understand' another 'need' she has. She won't tell me what it is, just says I have to see the scene. ok.
We go walk the dogs, and talk. A pleasant time. Full moon tonite too. As we're walking and she's talking about when we took ballroom dancing classes about 9 months ago and did we remember any steps. So, here we are on a busy street on the sidewalk and I say "Sure, I remember" and put my arm around her center and hold her hand and do one of the square steps with her - close. She was surprised I remembered it because I really didn't want to go to the class back then - it was her thing and I 'went along'. But I did pay attention...
I wondered what the people driving down the street must have thought of us though...
Later we were at home and I was standing looking into the living room and she came up behind me and put her arms around my neck. I was totally taken off guard. I did put my hands on hers and hold them for about a minute until she let go of me and walked away.
Very strange stuff.
Later, we're watching TV and she's actually looking at me with a sexy, flirty attitude and making 'innuendos'. I played along since one of the things Counselor said to do was 'build sexual tension'. Well, it was built!
Bedtime came and she basically went to her room. I came in and said good nite but did NOT linger. So, she went back and forth and back and forth tonite. Now she's back to 'detached' again.
Well, it was fun flirting. The woman makes no sense. She should just give it up and throw herself at me if she knows whats good for her.
Tomorrow she has to go all day for Jury duty so I won't see her at all till evening. I am betting she will be on the 'cool' side again. The warmness tonite was nice and also a surprise.
