Believe it or not, I do have a very tenderr spot, saved epecially for you, dear sweet man.
And I say this because every now and then, you shock the he!! out of me, and that is not an easy thing to do. I also say it, because, on occassion, you GET exactly what it is I am saying.
I will offer up to you my opinion. It is not a slam against you... it is my opinion only.
I think, you, of any HD on this board, have more opportunity to save his marriage than anyone. And I say that because you have stated, and continue to state, that you're wife will have sex with you whenever you desire... you just don't desire it with a woman who does not WANT you in the way you need to be wanted.
Based on your posts, and how long the two of us have been here... I will state with relative confidence.... that your wife has no idea she is not meeting your needs to the degree which you state here that you desire.
I think YOU, if you so decided, could turn your sex life around in a heart beat. I think you could have your wife back... the HD wife of whom you speak.
If you would like to discuss, I'd be happy to... but it might require you to open up a bit to me... so if you don't think you can... it's cool. I repsect that. But being a former LD lady myself, and what you have most recently described... well.... I just think you have more hope than you might think.
