She comes back to bed, in her eskimo gear, gets in bed, rolls over and trys to go to sleep. If I try to cuddle, she will usually say "Go to Sleep". Heck not only could I use afterglow, there are times where I would'nt mind cuddling and then going for it again. But, as with many LD people, SLEEP is her priority (always, and she gets far more sleep then I do).