I've known many women who feel the need to go to the bathroom after sex for the simple reasons that, yes...either they need to pee, or they wish to clean themselves up...some women really don't care for the feeling that they are leaking (and it can feel that way). Some people are very vigilent hygenically (my H is this way too). I can lay there for a few minutes, but he feels the need to clean up...it's nothing personal. An XBF of mine (who was very HD) did the same thing as well, so it's not HD/LD. I truly doubt she's doing any exercises to push anything out, when I read that I actually laughed out loud, not so much at you, but at the thought of it (and why in the heck would you even think that?) This is nothing out of the norm...some women do this, some don't (has nothing to do with HD/LD/ND)....and it's NOTHING directed at YOU....so don't even go there.
She may not want you to touch her in her genital area because she could be overly sensitive from the previous sexual contact so touching the genitals after sex for some people can actually feel more irritating than pleasurable to some folks. Once again not normal/abnormal.
