Had sex with the wife last night. I just have a question for the ladies. After having sex, my wife ALWAYS gets up and goes to the bathroom. There is NEVER time for afterglow in our sex life (which I would like). Can someone explain to me is this normal? Does sex cause you to feel like you need to pee, or is there some kind of aversion to having the mess of sex (and I am fixed so there is not that much mess). I wonder if she doesn't go in there to pee and use her kegel exercises to push things out. Is this normal? She really dislikes leakage, and after we are done, she wants me no where near her genitals.