I'm going to try to keep it merely on finances. As short as possible I just want to let her know that she needs to come up with her plan. I am going to let her knwo taht I am going to take the next 4 or 5 days to get numbers together and then we will have the talk next wednesday. In the mean time she needs to get her numbers together. I hate to see her struggle and not be able to make it financially cause that means the kids suffer.