My sitch actually involves more tahn just our R. When it comes to money things are going to take a drastic turn for the worse in the near future(4-6 months?) as my job is closing. I make about $50,000yr now and will be on unemployment where I might make $20,000. She makes only 700-800 a month. So she is really in no position now to live independently, much less when I lose my job. Money is a huge factor in this thing. By the end of the year I don't think I'll be able to be independent. I've tried to explain all this to her and I don't think she wants to hear it. If I end up paying child support I'll be living in a box and riding my bike around instead of driving my truck, and she still won't be able to afford the house. My point is independence for either one of us is going to be very difficlut to have.
